For All My People Pleasers Out There

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Triggering?! You must read below!!
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You might be a People-Pleaser if…
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🗣You apologize often.
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👀You feel responsible for how other people feel.
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🤝You pretend to agree with everyone.
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🚫You can’t say no.
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🗓Your schedule is filled with stuff you think others want you to do.
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😩You are uncomfortable when someone is angry with you.
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🤕You don’t admit when your feelings are hurt.
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🫣You do anything to avoid conflict.
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👯‍♀️You act like the people around you.
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🤩You need praise to feel good.
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HERE’S THE TRUTH:
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1) It’s not terrible if people don’t like us or respect us–it’s normal.
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2) Just because people are annoyed with us, that doesn’t mean they don’t like us.
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3) It’s not worth being liked by someone just because of what we do for them.
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4) Most people will like you EVEN IF you don’t live up to their expectations or do what they want you to do.
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5) God asks us to please Him, not people.
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How do I 🛑?
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🧐notice when you people-please
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🧠renew your mind
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👍accept that not everyone will like/respect you AND the people who do like/respect you will be annoyed with you at times
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👋let go of the unrealistic expectation that everyone will like you and never be mad at you
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🙌thank God for the people who do love you and respect you, EVEN WHEN you mess up. That includes God!🥰
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Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.
—Galatians 1:10
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